Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Army Reserve Turns 100

Army Reserve Marks Century of Service to Nation
By Retired Army Col. Randy PullenSpecial to American Forces Press ServiceWASHINGTON, April 20, 2008--
The U.S. Army Reserve celebrates its 100th birthday on April 23, marking a full century of service in which Army Reserve soldiers have continuously answered the nation’s call. Army Reserve soldiers served in both world wars, the Cold War, the Korean War, the Vietnam War, the Persian Gulf War and the ongoing global war on terrorism. They also helped respond to countless other crises, emergencies, disasters, operations and expeditions. That busy century of service to America all began when Congress established the Army’s first federal reserve force on April 23, 1908. President Theodore Roosevelt signed Senate Bill 1424, creating the Medical Reserve Corps. The Reserve medical officers in the corps could be ordered to active duty by the secretary of war during times of emergency. In June 1908, the first 160 medical professionals received Reserve commissions. This number grew to about 360 by 1909 and to 1,900 by 1916. The concept of bringing civilian professionals into the Army in a disciplined and quickly-accessible manner also expanded beyond the medical profession and beyond just officers. In 1912, the Regular Army Reserve was created, a federal reserve outside of the Medical Reserve Corps. It grew much more slowly than its predecessor; by 1913, there were only eight enlisted men in it. Three years later, some 3,000 Army Reserve soldiers would be called up to serve beside their Regular Army and National Guard comrades along the southern border of the United States. This first mobilization of the Army Reserve was due to tension between the United States and Mexico caused by the actions of the Mexican revolutionary, Francisco “Pancho” Villa, and the subsequent punitive expedition after him led by Brig. Gen. John J. Pershing. A second Mexican-American War was averted, but this mobilization provided invaluable experience for America’s Army in the greater war soon to come.....................

Website:
http://www.vfw.org/index.cfm?fa=news.newsDtl&did=4543

Nerve center is "set up"

I hung my second board up last night and now everything looks more organized. Mom thinks what I am doing is a great idea and she may encorporate it also into her and dad's bugeting plan. Now I feel 100% better. Will have to take a picture and post it.........YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

The "war" room

I have decided to put my OCD to good use.


Yes...you read that correctly.


I am going to buy a cork board at Wally World so to pin up all my lovely bills.....nice feeling huh?
It will be hung next to my bulletin board and will begin tracking my bills, payments and every lovely thing in between so that I quickly reach my desired goals.


Today everything is "goal" oriented...do I see a theme? :^)

PRAYING for overtime soon!!!!!!

With a wedding to get to (not to mention hotel expenses), paying off bills---I want overtime.
...shall pray to the overtime god and see what happens.


I want to get back on track and towards my goals faster.....I don't care....I will live here at NARA and just plug away, bring in 2 thermoses and yeah bring in a picture of a house to keep my motivational level on an even keel.

Home Ownership


Good news from my finance counselor.
My budget looks good....keep it on track. That bulletin board is being put to great use.
Credit score not bad but could be better and in a year's time with diligence, perseverance and keeping the goal in mind I could be a homeowner as early as next year.

Monday, April 28, 2008

Getting rid of negative feelings

I don't like to harbor them.

To me a complete waste of time....

BUT----if you have to wallow in it then take a few minutes in the day then get over it. WHY waste any more precious time on issues that will not change, on people too stubborn to realize that their actions hurts others.



Sometimes I do get tired of being the pacifer in relationships....like it is my responsibility 200% of the time to make things right.



Whatever happened to mutual responsibility??????

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Nothing is worse than being misunderstood

You think people might understand you but when it comes right down to it maybe they don't get you at all.

What to do?

All you can do is relay your point and if they refuse to see your side or play the victim game is best to just take a deep and I mean deep breath and move on.

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Acting silly


Once in a while just have to let loose:

Friday, April 25, 2008

Following through

Maybe because I am an "older" vet....maybe because I will need a medical waiver to get back in but the recruiter (I use the term loosely on this one) cost me a lost job opportunity as an AGR and wanted ME to pick up my military medical records from the regional office in town has soured me big time. I hope no other veteran who served their country honorably and proudly has to go through what I did.

I am filing a formal complaint through the Army Training and Doctrine Command (TRADOC) regarding this recruiter....they have asked me to send in my military information and I am also sending information regarding my horrid experience with this recruiter. For one I DID get the job with the AGR (Active Guard and Reserve) in Iowa but due to the fact I did not get processed into the Army (like I was led to believe I would) I lost it. The recruiter stated everything was in order. He actually wanted me to go to the regional VA office to pick up my own medical records. Uhhhhh.........that's YOUR job buddy........NOT mine. There are valid reasons in place as to why recruiters are suppose to pick up such records. I had to keep after him on my application. I served honorably, I have advanced degrees and I held 3 military jobs. As a non-commissioned officer we were advised that to keep our stripes we had to diversify ourselves so I did and I did it well.

For me I believe in action....if you complain about an issue and it is a valid complaint and you don't follow through then I see you as a whiner not a doer.

Life is short like this blog is always babbling about........................................

Following through means just that......get an answer and make sure you did 200% in finding it.

NO veteran should be treated in such a disrespectful manner!!!

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Searching for one's ancestors

I want to know where I came from. Since I was a little girl this has been a keen passion of mine. I want to know my lineage....what makes me well...."me."

One place a person can look to is the Internet. It contains a vast wealth of possible resources. Ancestory.com gives a person insight and a wonderful starting point for researching lost relatives.

I plan on filling mine in...who knows...may find people I never knew who come from the same tree....

Ready for a siesta

Perhaps it is the weather....rolling storms coming in...or maybe the 5 slices of pizza, donuts and coke I had today (hmmm...can we say overloaded on carbs and sugar)? It is my coach's birthday today so we put together an impromptu party. He loved it. Could sleep like a baby.......not a care in the world.

NOT!

Right now I can see myself cuddled on the couch with Simba--my bud.......yeah....

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

The joys of sunshine....


Don't ya just love this picture of peacefulness?
Yes....even though we were teased unmercifully with the sun yesterday I can still feel Springtime in the air...(sniffing) ahhhh yes.......the flowers are blooming...nature's colorful palette....I feel an extra oomph in my step.
I want to be outside...
Crave it.
Man, I HOPE....no PRAY that we have great weather this weekend so my daughter and I can hop on over to the zoo and check out the new exhibits. Ready to just get out of the cave and smell, breathe, enjoy life.

Busy Bees

Ever the mindful observer of my environment I noticed how quickly I170 fills up at approximately 6:30am.

We Americans are busy little bees when it comes to work.

A very business oriented culture...(and stressed out by the way)....we get into our cars and head to our respective jobs each and every morning (for those of us who work the day shift). What I notice to and from work is that no one is smiling, singing...nothing.

Thought I am not a morning person I try to make light of going to work.

'Course I hate getting out of bed in the morning but I must...bill$ have to be paid after all and I am not the type of woman who can cope sitting at home all day watching the tele or cleaning. I need outside stimuli.

Anyway, sometimes I will be rocking in my car to a nice salsa beat or an oldies tune and people will smile.

After all life is meant to be enjoyed isn't it?

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

The beauty of poetry

I found this poem while researching the phrase: "learn from the world to soar" and really dig this poem:

The voyage Home
By Hashim bin Ambia

For too long, we have been adrift on the open sea.
Far, far away from home.
Unprepared, we are humiliated by these storms.
Our small boat, sails broken, a victim to the winds

Cross currents, too strong for our thin arms.
Waves, soaring higher than our humble hope.
Our heads, bowed even before defeat.
Our damning eyes, avoiding one anothers'
Our souls, as wild and sometimes as lonely as the open sea.

Let us cease to curse nature.
Abusing our lips, with one anothers' names.
Let us mend this broken boat,
this broken sail,
this broken soul.

Let us harness the wind.
Make use of the currents.
With faith and sweat, set sail to our land of the Qur'an and Sunnah.
Amidst this storm, let us begin the voyage home.

Wave of the future?


Maybe...

This remarkable Green friendly car was featured on Modern Marvels---where else but the History Channel. The car is reported to get 600 miles on one tank of gas....coupled with alternating with the compressed air I was like whoa......wave of the future........

The Air Cars

Compressed air is an energy vector that can be used, in a viable way, to transport both people and goods.

The main goal of Air Car Factories is to develop and manufacture a vehicle driven by a compressed air engine with a level of performance that will respond to the actual needs of today’s market.


Websites:
www.theaircar.com
http://www.history.com/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Air_car
http://auto.howstuffworks.com/air-car.htm

Historic Saint Charles Main Street

I found this jewel by accident and fell in love immediately. I love history and Main Street is remnant to a bygone romantic era. Many wonderful shops, restaurants and pubs to choose from. I personally eat at the Lewis & Clark Restaurant Public House. GREAT food (getting hungry now):

Websites:

Size 6

Never in a million years did I think I could fit into a pair of size 6 jeans. Why do I say that?
Glad you asked.

You see about two and a half years ago I was a size 22. Yep. I was taking certain meds that made me gain weight and coupled with stress I packed on the pounds.

It was a sloooowwww process to lose it all but in order to lose this extra baggage I had to do it the healthy way. Also a stint in the hospital and only being able to eat 30 fat grams a day pretty much motivated this chica to lose the blubber.

Going to the gym helped, having the ab lounger really whittled down my waistline. It DOES work if you are diligent. You gotta have that drive, that fire to reach these goals because it isn't easy and it WON'T happen overnight. If you think you will see results the day you start to lose weight think again. Having such a mindset can set you up to fail.
Look at the bigger picture.
Keep track of your weight loss not by days but maybe at the end of the week you can see where you are heading and adjust but adjust in a healthy way and talk to your doctor before starting any type of weight loss or exercise program.

Tomorrow is gym day and I am planning to stay there for at least 45 minutes. I want to build up my tolerance to going an hour each time.

God bless me!! ;^)

Monday, April 21, 2008

Warmer weather does approach

The sun....I almost forgot what it looked like and oh yeah...blue skies.

Leaving early today to take care of some personal business but man...when I see that sun shining my whole blood stirs into action. Makes me want to leap, belt out a melody accompanied to the soundtrak of The Sound of Music.....just kidding.


..................maybe........................

NARA MARKS 107TH BIRTHDAY OF LAST WWI VET.

In February, NARA celebrated the 107th on February 1, leaving Buckles as the only one birthday of the nation’s last known living remaining. World War I veteran, Frank Woodruff Buckles was born in Harrison County, Buckles. Missouri, on February 1, 1901. In 1917, at the
To honor him—and by extension all the age of 16, he enlisted in the U.S. Army by men and women who served in the First World claiming to be 18. During the war, he was Richard Boylan examines a book on World War I from the library of Frank Buckles (right), the nation’s last known living veteran of that war. Boylan and another NARA archivist, Mitch Yockelson, visited Buckles on February 12, shortly after his 107th birthday. Photo by Evan Vucci/AP Photos
War—National Archives archivists Richard Boylan (NWCT2R) and Mitch Yockelson (OIG) traveled to Buckles’s home in West Virginia and presented him with copies of records relating to his military service.

Boylan, who specializes in military records, came up with the idea of marking the stationed in the United States, the United Kingdom, Germany, and France.

Boylan and Yockelson located more than 50 pages of textual material documenting Buckles’s service. A professional researcher, Susan Strange, found 57 photos of the area where he was stationed in Winchester, England.

Website:

http://www.nara-at-work.gov/nara_news/bulletin/2008/sb572.pdf

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Roller Blading

Took my daughter to Grant's Trail to try out her roller blades. She did a pretty good job.....just doesn't know how to "brake"....instead she allows herself to "gracefully" fall on her butt...which had me going. The dutiful mom I walked behind her ensuring that if any incidents arose I would quickly capture my youngin'

We checked out the Clydesdale horses who were being quite sociable today. Awesome creatures. Several colts were running around and scratching their backs in the green pasture. Many people were out with their kids or couples biking. Gorgeous day out. Hope it lasts through the week.

I am a fan of Civil War reenactments. I also love that time period. I have attended a couple in St. Charles. I did write a book based on the Battle of New Market after all.

I have an American soldier pen pal stationed in Iraq and he participates in these reenactments. He sent this website and wanted to share:


Website:

http://www.thecavalry.org/Welcome.html

Fooling around with photobucket

Just an awesome site to mess around with your photos and they have a new edit feature I was playing around with:

Photobucket

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Not giving up

Sometimes we are hit with some major life events that can cause us to question our motives, our place in this life.

Despite falling down the best advice I can always give is never give up.

Don't give up on your dreams.

Keep that fire burning deep within....................

Remember why you are striving for that goal.

Keep a great support network around you.

Live in the moment, dream of the future, and forgive the past.

LIVING ON A PRAYER...

My daughter played Bon Jovi's "Living on a Prayer." Man oh man it brought back some good memories. In Korea a bunch of us Army pals got together and traveled up to Taegu for a lip singing contest. The song my friends lip synced to was you guessed it: "Living on a Prayer."

Can't help it....love that song. Such a rush...young, vibrant...only 18 at the time:

"We've got to hold on to what we've got . . .
We're half way there - Livin' on a prayer
. . .

We've got to hold on ready or not

You live for the fight when it's all that you've got.

We're half way there - Livin' on a prayer
. . .
We're half way there - Livin' on a prayer
. . .
We're half way there - Livin' on a prayer....."

Friday, April 18, 2008

Sorry I just HAD to post this one


Hispanic Day at Jefferson City


4/8/08
PRELIMINARY
PRE-HISPANIC DAY TIMELINE

APRIL 21, 2008
Reception at Capitol Plaza Hotel 415 W. McCarty Street
Jefferson City, MO 65101
573-635-1234
FAX 573-635-4565
5:00 - 8:00 p.m. Pre-Registration
Registration and collection of Registration Fee ($10.00 cash)
6:00 - 6:30 p.m. Welcoming & Networking
6:30 - 8:30 p.m. Reception - Carnegies Room
(No charge to Registrants/Delegates)
7:00 p.m. Program - Candidates for Governor (invited), Ken Hulshoff, Jay Nixon & Sarah
Steelman

TIMELINE FOR HISPANIC DAY AT JEFFERSON CITY
APRIL 22, 2008
7:30 a.m. Headquarters for Committee Opens for Registration Parking:
Governor’s Office Building, Room 450 Public Garage
Jefferson City, MO 65101 Madison & Capitol

2 blocks east of Capitol Across the street
Registration - Collection of $10.00 cash Registration Fee from Headquarters
Continental Breakfast available (No charge to Registrants/Delegates)
8:30 a.m. Meeting with House & Senate Leadership (in their office) in the Capitol
Senate: President Pro Tem - Senator Michael Gibbons 9:30 a.m., Room 326
Minority Floor Leader - Senator Maida Coleman 9:40 a.m., Room 333
House: Speaker of the House -
Representative Rod Jetton 9:30 a.m., Room 308
Minority Floor Leader - Representative Paul LeVota 8:30 a.m., Room 204
Meeting with Statewide Elected Officials (in their office)
Lt. Governor (Peter Kinder) 9:30 a.m., Capitol, Room 224
Secretary of State (Robin Carnahan) 9:30 a.m., Capitol, Room 208
State Auditor (Susan Montee) 9:30 a.m., Capitol, Room 121
State Treasurer (Sarah Steelman) 9:30 a.m., Capitol, Room 229
Attorney General (Jay Nixon) 9:00 a.m., 207 West High Street (Supreme
Ct. Bldg., across street south of Capitol)


4/8/08 2
9:00 a.m. Visit to Delegate’s Individual State Senators or State Representatives (if desired by
individual delegates)
9:50 a.m. Delegation to be at House, 4th Floor Gallery
10:00 a.m. Delegation at House Gallery for introduction
10:30 a.m. Delegation to be at Senate 4th Floor Gallery for introductions
11:00 a.m. Presentations by State Agencies (Governor’s Office Building)
1) Commission on Business & Cultural Affairs - 11:00 a.m.
2) Commission on Human Rights - 11:30 a.m.
12:00
noon Box Lunch (Governor’s Office Building, Room 450)
1:15 p.m. Town Hall Meeting with Governor Matt Blunt (Governor’s Office Bldg., Room 450)
2:00 p.m. Presentation by Homeland Security and Highway Patrol
2:30 p.m. Presentation by Department of Education
3:00 p.m. Presentation regarding Civil Rights Initiative
3:30 p.m. Census
4:00 p.m. All presentations end
4:15-6:00 p.m. Wrap up at Committee Headquarters
Debriefing, Governor’s Office Building, Room 450
Discussion of issues most important to Hispanic Community
Formation of Corporation & Elections re Board of Directors and Officers

Ga$


It's the recession stupid!! (Part II)

One thing I am learning albeit kicking and screaming is that when price$ are gouging you out you gotta take measure$ to curtail previous spending habit$ and never is this more prevalent when you want to buy a home.

People learn habits--good ones and bad. The older you get the harder it is to break a bad habit.
What I have come to realized is at times I can really dig myself a hole when it comes to being thrifty.
Our federal pay increase was paltry compared to what certain members of Congress and the
Senate give themselves. The increase is not reflecting the cost of goods and services...so what is this gal to do?
Time to start researching better and proven ways of cutting corner$.

I never had anyone show me how to manage a budget. That pretty much was left up to me.

Now I am realizing how important it is to be frugal.
Website:

Dept. of VA Housing Program


Because I am a veteran who was honorably discharge I am entitled to buying a house with no downpayment via my certificate. I am setting up an appt. to speak with a VA rep for the lending program. Whoo hoooo!!!!!
Disabled veterans can receive additional benefits through the VA housing program.
Either way...A wonderful opportunity for any vet contemplating the American Dream:

Eligibility Frequently Asked Questions

Q: How do I get a Certificate of Eligibility?A: Complete a VA Form 26-1880, Request for a Certificate of Eligibility: You can apply for a Certificate of Eligibility by submitting a completed VA Form 26-1880, Request For A Certificate of Eligibility For Home Loan Benefits, to the Winston-Salem Eligibility Center, along with proof of military service. In some cases it may be possible for VA to establish eligibility without your proof of service. However, to avoid any possible delays, it's best to provide such evidence.Q: Can my lender get my Certificate of Eligibility for me?A: Yes, it's called ACE (automated certificate of eligibility). Most lenders have access to the ACE (automated certificate of eligibility) system. This Internet based application can establish eligibility and issue an online Certificate of Eligibility in a matter of seconds. Not all cases can be processed through ACE - only those for which VA has sufficient data in our records. However, veterans are encouraged to ask their lenders about this method of obtaining a certificate.
Q: What is acceptable proof of military service?A: If you are still serving on regular active duty, you must include an original statement of service signed by, or by direction of, the adjutant, personnel officer, or commander of your unit or higher headquarters which identifies you and your social security number, and provides your date of entry on your current active duty period and the duration of any time lost.If you were discharged from regular active duty after January 1, 1950, a copy of DD Form 214, Certificate of Release or Discharge From Active Duty should be included with your VA Form 26-1880. If you were discharged after October 1, 1979, DD Form 214 copy 4 should be included. A PHOTOCOPY OF DD214 WILL SUFFICE.....DO NOT SUBMIT AN ORIGINAL DOCUMENT.

Websites:

Experienced strong earthquake


Talk of the agency this morning. Coworkers jabbering away at what they felt.

My cat woke me up initially. It is said animals know what is going to happen beforehand...a coworker's dog acted hyper jumping into bed with he and his wife barking like crazy. It occurred at 4:37am. My window was rattling at a pretty good rate...I was like

????

The quake was felt as far away as Indianapolis, Indiana. Originated in Illinois. So felt in three states:

(CNN) -- A magnitude 5.4 earthquake, centered 127 miles east of St. Louis, Missouri, shook southern Illinois at 4:36 a.m. (5:36 a.m. ET) Friday, according to the U.S. Geological Survey. There were no immediate reports of damage, according to USGS spokeswoman Jessica Sigala. The epicenter of the earthquake was about 3 miles below ground and 41 miles north-northwest of Evansville, Indiana (<=my hometown). People as far north as Chicago and as far west as St. Louis reported feeling the quake, Sigala said.


Websites:

http://edition.cnn.com/2008/US/04/18/illinois.earthquake/index.htmlhttp://www.ksdk.com/news/news_article.aspx?storyid=144471

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Always interesting history


Worked on a Freedom of Information Act case today. The veteran was in the Marine Corp during WWII and had been awarded the Congressional Medal of Honor.
I always find it of great interest to read how someone is given such a prestigious award and what kind of courage/character it takes to be so valiant.
History
THE ORIGINAL NAVY MEDAL OF HONOR
The Navy's Medal of Honor was the first approved and the first designed. The initial work was done by the Philadelphia Mint at the request of Secretary of the Navy Gideon Welles. The Mint submitted several designs for consideration, and the one prepared by the Philadelphia firm of William Wilson & Sons was the design selected.

The selected Medal of Honor design consisted of an INVERTED, 5-pointed STAR. On each of the five points was a cluster of LAUREL leaves to represent victory, mixed with a cluster of OAK to represent strength. Surrounding the encircled insignia were 34 stars, equal to the number of stars in the U.S. Flag at the time in 1862....one star for each state of the Union including the 11 Confederate states. The stars are also symbolic of the "heavens and the divine goal which man has aspired to since time immemorial" according to Charles Thompson, Secretary of the Continental Congress back in 1777.

Inside the circle of 34 stars were engraved two images. To the right is the image of Minerva, the Roman goddess of wisdom and war. On her helmet is perched an owl, representing WISDOM. In keeping with the Roman tradition, her left hand holds a bundle of rods and an ax blade, symbolic of authority. The shield in her right hand is the shield of the Union of our states (similar to the shield on our seal and other important emblems.)
Website:

WHY do some people doubt I served in the military?

For the life of me I will never quite grasp that train of thinking.

I served from 1986-2003. I enjoyed being a part of something bigger.

I enjoyed the opportunities laid out for me and having the ability to travel.

Another thing I don't get is why people may think I did not have the strength or fortitude to have lasted all those years........do I look frail?

I got dirty like the rest of them.

Promoted quickly due to hard work.

Are there stereotypes out there of what Army women should act and look like?

Someone please enlighten me.

BTW I was also a police officer intern while in college........hmmmm......kind of reveals a little of what my interests are.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Classes & other stuff.

Tomorrow is my second class for Gateway to Financial Fitness. Nerdy but am psyched....psyched about the direction I am taking and about buying that bulletin board.

My daughter is more into scheduling, planning and keeping things "jotted down"....I am more in the line with keeping it all in my head. NOT this time....anyway, I like the ladies who are with me and I hope we get the same instructor.

I still have to fill out my Hispanic Leadership app and will get that out hopefully by this weekend. I am excited about being a more active member in the St. Louis community. Time to network, network network!

The next item on my agenda is to fix my laptop..............still.

Cheap baseball tickets

It's that time NARA Family - Cardinal Baseball Tickets

Games are:
Friday, May 30, 7:10 pm, Pittsburgh, Sections 447/453/454
Friday, August 22, 7:10 pm, Atlanta, Sections 447/453/454
Friday, September 5, 7:10 pm, Florida, Sections 270/271/272
Employee tickets are $9.00 and guest tickets are $12.00. An employee must be present to purchase tickets. Your work ID will be required. No one will be allowed to purchase tickets for anyone else or use someone else's name when purchasing tickets. NO EXCEPTIONS.
Tickets will be sold in the atrium starting Friday, May 2, at 11:00 am and continuing every Friday until all tickets are sold.

This is being sponsored by the Civilian Welfare Fund Committee

Sisters forEVER................

M & J

Too funny


Hmmmm......
Women aren't the only ones who are vain! :^)

The Lot


I love cars (especially classics). If you can make it to this I highly recommend going:

The Lot is a community of guys and girls that meet together once a month to hang out, show off and talk about cars, trucks, motorcycles or anything else that has wheels. The Lot is open on the 3rd Saturday of each month May through October of each year. The first Lot each year is a big car show that will include many local businesses, prizes, registrations and free food. Following the big show, the monthly gatherings are more laid back and do not require anyone to register... but there is still free food. Although we always welcome show cars... we are dreamers just like you, and we want to see the daily drivers and "works in progress." Except for the kick-off car show in May (4-10pm), the times are always 7pm - 11pm. We are located at St. Charles First Assembly of God at their new building located at the former Behlmann Carnection building.
Website:

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

The Military and me

Those of us who wore the uniform...who served together in various situations can relate to what if feels like when you are no longer a part of that special camaraderie.

I miss it. God I do.

I miss wearing the uniform.

The travel.

The culture---

Man even the food....

When you join as young as I did it really does leave a lasting impression.

And leaving, yeah....you leave behind a piece of yourself.

......heart and soul....a big piece.

17 was a young young age to join...at that time personality is still forming-maybe even some self-doubt...you are venturing out to parts unknown meeting people so different yet once that uniform is on there seems to be a sense of well..."unity"----

The military and me............

Testing the limits...

Seeking the thrills....

Complete mental and physical exhaustion but by GOD you did it--you even came to love it. I did it.

Well, what did I know anyway about it anyway?

Here I was this Midwestern corn girl setting out to explore her part of the world and wow what an adventure it was....

I do try and find people on the net whom I served with but it's hard. Probably could go to an Army Worldwide Locator and see if I can track down some old buddies of mine.

Seems like a lifetime ago.

The Name Analyzer on Facebook...cool!

Army Reserve Retirement


Though I am not eligible sometimes blogs are a great informative resource for individuals who come from diverse populations such as the military. This came in my email and wanted to share:
Expanding Reserve Early Retirement
Tom Philpott April 10, 2008

Reservists and National Guard personnel mobilized for war and national emergencies for periods of 90 days or longer since Sept. 11, 2001, could see their age-60 threshold for receiving reserve retirement lowered under a bill (S 2836) introduced April 9 by ten Republican and Democratic senators.
"The bill we are introducing today enhances what we did in last year's defense bill and rewards our men and women who have deployed since our nation was attacked," said Saxby Chambliss (R-Ga.).
Congress voted a compromise last year that allows only reserve component members deployed after Jan. 28, for 90 days or more, to earn the right to retire earlier than age 60.
Chambliss, who led the effort to reduce reserve retirement age by tying the initiative to current and future wartime deployments, now joins with colleague to try to have early retirement credit applied retroactively to more than 600,000 reservists and Guard members who deployed since 9/11.
Take Action: Tell your public officials how you feel about this issue.
Many of them have been unhappy to learn they were left out of last year's action. Congress only found money enough in the FY 2008 defense budget to apply the early retirement provision to deployment time served after the 2008 defense authorization bill was signed.
For every consecutive 90 days spent mobilized, reservists will see the traditional age-60 start for annuities reduced by three months. Therefore a reservist eligible to retire who mobilized for a year after Jan. 28 can begin to draw retired pay at age 59.
Website:

Having a daughter is AWESOME!!!

Ever since I can remember I wanted to be a mom. I played with dolls since forever....mom and dad have video of me (8mm) of rocking a rabbit to sleep when I was approximately 1 year of age.

Growing up I always knew having a child would be in my future. Just did not know when it would happen. At 19 I had my kid and she provided so much joy, comfort and all around laughter/smiles...forever grateful I am having this human being in my life. Children are a gift and something we should never forget.

My brother's and fiance's trip to Puerto Rico

Visiting family and touring the island.















































Monday, April 14, 2008

Ahhh....

I spent roughly 45 minutes at the gym. Did a 15 minute mile and worked on my upper arms. Considering it has been almost a month since my last visit I think I did pretty well....even though I went after work my energy level did increase once I was done. Just getting back on the ol' saddle.

Food, Gas and Riots

As I contemplate filling my ga$ tank with $3.40 cents a gallon fuel I think about the many men, women, and children around the world who are trying to meet their basic needs.

According to Jeffrey Sachs, director of Columbia University's Earth Institute:
"This is the world's big story."

Indeed it is when you have riots in Egypt, Haiti and Mozambique along with other developing nations making front page news. Efforts from developed Western nations are being sought for naught as the poor suffer in droves.

I wonder at the same time where are the priorities of these local governments who appear to have enough money for them$elve$ ---------yet when it comes to their own people there seems to be lack of resources.

In addition, many of these nations main staple is rice and that too is rising.

Can we blame it solely on the cost of production for ethanol?

The War in Iraq?

The recession of the USA?

I think it is a culmination of many many factors. Not just one.

I realize that my ills are not as grave as some families in developing nations. As an American though I feel the pinch. I am grateful for the job I have, the roof over my head and the food I can eat every day.

As the average citizen I wonder about the state of world affairs every day...contrary to what some might think overseas.....not all Americans are so self-indulgent that they do not ponder upon the tribulations of fellow human beings across the globe.

Traveling overseas

I miss it terribly.

I kind of think the Army spoiled me.

The last country I had the fortune to visit was Oman and this was over 2 years ago....where has the time gone? I remember when I initially landed in Seoul, South Korea at Osan I was like wow! Here I was at barely 18 years of age in a country totally foreign to what I was accustomed to.

I never took for granted the opportunities laid at my feet via the military. When I had the chance to visit the Middle East in 2006 I grabbed at it. How could I NOT?

Now I am itching to pack my bags and venture off again to parts unknown. A real adventure of my own making.............I really miss the excitement of meeting new people...being exposed to a whirlwind of novel ideas, customs, languages different than Midwest, USA.

Time will tell but I will find a way to travel once again........................

Satisfy this wanderlust.

Natural Highs

A co-worker sent me a list of natural highs and for me at least I want to live this way:

Life is meant to be lived to its fullest without
relying on anything artificial. Give me love, laughter, sunshine, sunsets, children laughing,
children playing, first kisses, first hugs, rainbows on a rainy day...waking up
with a smile..................

...just whatever it takes to make this life worth living.

Bulletin board I plan to buy



One step at a time....................this will be a nice visual aid

What is on my desk top right now


Step by step

One thing I have learned from the financial fitness class is that sometimes you have to break up your goal(s) into manageable pieces. When you do that it makes it easier to attain.

I realized that human nature can sometimes have good intentions but if you overwhelm yourself when trying to obtain a goal sometimes that goal is never attained.

It is far better to methodically plan things out (especially for the big ones like buying a home) then jumping in with both feet. Yeah, sometimes diving in is all good but when you sometimes do that you can forget the little stuff...make mistakes along the way and not accomplish everything you are setting out to do. Or, you are so overwhelmed that the goal is never realized (something I don't even plan on thinking about).

It will come true.

So buying a home takes little steps....not just diving right in like I wanted to intially with all my excitement. I realize that it has to be planned out...reasonably and with care. When I do that my dream will come true.
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Attaining Goals in Simple Steps By Ronald Shepard
It’s Not The Big Goals That Count Most

In my opinion, the biggest problem in attaining goals is setting too many or setting those that are WAY out of reach (i.e., buying a $650,000. house on an annual earning of $50,000.) However, I do believe even those seemingly unreachable goals can be often accomplished when we break down our process into smaller goals.It is the smaller goals that can be achieved more reasonably and effectively; it is the smaller goals that lead us on the path toward our eventual rendezvous with the larger goal. Reaching the summit of a mountain is not accomplished by a “single step.” Primary to reaching any goal is breaking it down into simple, attainable steps. Buying that $650,000. house is attainable when setting smaller goals that lead you toward that dream.

Believing We Can Do It

When I truly believe I can do something, I work everything I can to make it happen! Sometimes it takes several tries, a great deal of exasperation, sweat, and sometimes even tears to accomplish a major goal, but the core of the work must come from a place of strong, personal belief in ourselves. Without a strong belief in our own abilities, we can accomplish very little. There are many times when self-doubt creeps in and tries to consume us. If we stop believing in ourselves, we set ourselves up for defeat. And unless we have a truly supportive mentor, we MUST believe in ourselves because many times family and friends (even when they express well-intended concerns) can foil our best intentions in a flash. That’s not to say our best allies, mentors, and advisers can’t be family and friends, but our personal power of believing in ourselves is critical in reaching any goal we desire to attain.

Setting Goals Consistent With Your Values

Have you ever set goals for yourself that were really someone else’s goals for you? Many of us have been in that position. That’s not an easy place to be. In fact, it can be detrimental to self-growth. Defining our personal values is important when defining long-range goals. There’s nothing more disappointing than reaching a goal that runs contrary to our values. It’s like climbing a huge mountain and suddenly realizing when you reach the summit that you’ve climbed the wrong mountain. Define your values and design your destiny around them. Ask the question, “How will my personal values be enhanced by the goals I choose?”

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I do agree, when your goals are in alignment with your personal values it will make things easier. I don't want to climb up the wrong mountain as Mr. Shepard states in his article. For me a waste of time. Your goals should be in alignment with your destiny...your heart and in the end will make you feel like a fuller, happier person.

Websites:
http://www.powerhomebiz.com/vol9/goals.htm
http://ezinearticles.com/?Attaining-Goals-in-Simple-Steps&id=236538
http://ezinearticles.com/?Five-Steps-To-Attaining-Any-Goal&id=539136
http://www.goalssuccess.com/2006/08/attaining-goals-in-simple-steps-by.html

Exercise what exercise?

I have not been to the gym in three weeks...yes three weeks.

Mom came for a week then overtime was offered. I felt bad leaving mom home all day when I was at work and did not want to spend additional time away so I put off going. Then we were offered overtime and my gym membership is every other day: Monday, Wednesday, Friday's and Sundays. So I had to pick the days most advantageous to make additional $$$.

Sooooo, today I return to 24 hour fitness after my hiatus and let me tell you I DID feel guilty being away.

You get into a comfortable routine of going and then well...your brain, your body expects for you to keep up.

Kind of like brushing your teeth...

..........just the routine takes a little longer.

I am a person used to exercise.

Growing up in the country I had the lake, my bike, the woods, cornfields, etc....I think you get the picture.

Growing up in the country meant outdoor living. Then in the military well....we had PT every other day. While stationed in S. Korea we always had our 5 mile runs...those were awesome (and was proud of myself for keeping up).

Nothing like calling cadence in unison with 100's of voices as one. Ahhhh those were those days........

I digress but am excited about returning. With warm weather peeping around the corner it is an additional motivation for me to get back into the swing of things and keep in shape. After all...I have a wedding in Miami to attend in the Fall and am turning 40 (ack ack)...gotta look my best.

:^)

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Reasons why people think Catholics are "crazy"



----------Reasons why people think we're "crazy"---------

- We like to keep Mass interesting. We sit, stand and kneel, in no particular order. Probably just to keep the blood flowing.

- It's not merlot and Ritz they're serving; it's the Flesh and Blood of Jesus...............No, really.

- Forget a big meal afterwards, just pick up some of the breakfast tacos they're always selling after Mass

- Purgatory.

- We all have 20 cousins......................On each side of the family.

- Infant Baptism isn't dumb; it's after-life insurance.

- $5.00 in the collection basket is the epitome of generosity. Anything more than that, someone has hit the lottery.

- A missal is a book, not a weapon. However, it has been known to pull double duty.

- The signs we make aren't just a mark of respect, they're a lot of fun to do.

- Every Catholic Guy tries to sit next to the really hot girl they like at Mass. This is because they really want to hug during "Peace Be With You" and hold hands for the "Our Father"

- We really like statues. A lot.

- After every confession, everyone hits themselves on the head. This is because they have realized that they forgot that really big sin, and they know that it'll hang over their head til the next time.

- Contraceptives? Why?

- Altar boys continue well into their twenties.

- The 14 Stations has nothing to do with TV.

- "Peace Be With You" is just a way to meet pretty girls.

- We've always been taught that celibacy til marriage is the only way to go, forever and ever, amen. That being said...

- "Sin on Saturday. Pray on Sunday. Confess on Monday".

- The Mass doesn't start for a few minutes not because of tardy parisihioners. It's because the priest is running late.

- The Virgin Mary is not a God and we don't treat her as such. But she is without sin, gave birth to Jesus and did it without having sex. That warrants more than a little respect.

- 11:00 a.m. Mass means 11:15.

- We actually get all the jokes in Dogma.

- There are two very different, irreconcilable factions in every single church in the world. They are known as the Saturday or Sunday Mass bunch.

- St. Patrick drove all the snakes out of Ireland. SNAKES.

- You miss JPII more than you miss some relatives... but who misses that child molester uncle anyway?

- Bake Sales are a way of life.

- Your knees are more calloused than your feet.

- Priests have been giving us alcohol since we were little kids. No wonder any one of us can drink Protestants under the table.

- The Catholic way of dealing with a mid-life crisis is having another kid.

- Mass is nearly unchanged after almost 2000 years. We're a little stubborn.

- Catholic School Girls.

- Whatever you gave up for Lent, you have it in your hands at 11:59 p.m. Saturday night, counting the seconds til midnight.

- Episcopalians are referred to as "Diet Catholics"

- You either love or hate the Stations of the Cross. There is no middle ground.

- We all know Da Vinci code is bogus and inaccurate. Yet we'll still read it if nothing else is goin on.

- "Offer it up!" = "Quit bitching!"

- We have Midnight Mass so there are no interruptions on Christmas morning

- You've slipped out an Amen after the Pledge of Allegiance.

- Holy Water can kill just about anything. So Protestants are pretty much screwed if a vampire comes calling.

- There's no way to explain it, but Catholic girls are just scorching hot.

- There's no need for impromptu prayer; you can always fall back on the Rosary.

- Pope Benedict XVI scares you. Badly.

- It's not uncommon for just one family to take up an entire pew or two.

- Boondock Saints is the greatest movie ever. E-Ver.

- Confession. Enough said.

- You're of the opinion that Stephen Colbert should be Canonized.

- When in doubt, say a Hail Mary.

- Who created Family Guy? Oh yeah, a Catholic!

- Whenever anyone in Star Wars saga says "May the Force Be With You", we get the urge to say "And Also With You"

- The Pope does indeed wear a funny hat. But it's way more interesting than Joel Osteen's suit and tie.

- If you see a guy leaning forward, looking half-dead with his head on the pew in front of him... he's not praying. He's hungover and was guilted into coming to Mass anyway.

- Even though you never met her or been to a country she's been in, you're still willing to have "seen" a miracle by Mother Teresa.

- We're the oldest Christian religion. Period.

Time passes................

It's funny how you can look in a mirror and see your life etched upon your face:

The wrinkles, laugh lines, shape of the eyes, turn of the mouth.

I can reminiscence about "the old days" when I was a kid...remembering how it felt to simply have my future lying pristine and clear at my feet. Waiting to conquor this world...make it a better place--more unique with my presence.

Constantly looking back at costly mistakes (& small ones) made, the gains, losses, laughing, smiles, memories appearing as if sometimes like ghostly images lost in a curl of fog.

As time passes I realize how precious life is....not to live with regrets but to learn from them---and let go.

To embrace the future...middle age whatever you wish to call it and realize that life was full of many many priceless things:

---family, friends, travels, education, military, a birth, a death...

all part of the continuous cycle of life---a cycle which after my passing will continue on through my descendants and as they too will look in the mirror at my age I wonder if they will ponder the same things---even see a little of myself in those laugh lines...knowing where they came from and then thinking of where as an adult---they are going.

Becoming a member of HLG

I have requested to become a member of the Hispanic Leadership Group of Greater St. Louis so that I can give back to my community in a number of ways. I offered my services as a federal employee to speak with members of the Hispanic community to let them know about the National Archives services for veterans and their families.

Some additional info on HLG:

Mission Statement
The Mission Statement of the Hispanic Leaders Group of Greater St. Louis is as follows:
The mission of HLG is to be a representative, strong, and supportive voice of the Hispanic community in the regional St. Louis area, by keeping informed and abreast of local and national issues that impact the Hispanic community, to promote views on issues to help in the development of a harmonious and diverse St. Louis community.

Goals and Objectives
The purpose of HLG is to serve as a coalition organization for the Greater St. Louis Hispanic community. It promotes Hispanic views on issues such as: education, culture, language, immigration, policy analysis, health, economic development, organized labor, employment, political awareness, and civil rights. HLG acts as a positive influence and conduit to focus Hispanic energy and resources as the Greater St. Louis Hispanic voice in our community.

Foundation
The Hispanic Leaders Group of Greater St. Louis (HLG) was founded in 1983 with the purpose of serving the Hispanic community as an umbrella organization for the various Hispanic groups in the St. Louis region. The founders of HLG had as one of their goals to unite the diverse Hispanic community and present its voice to the larger society. Anthony B. Ramirez was the initiator of this effort along with a few others.

Friday, April 11, 2008

Little Girl Sings Our Lord's Prayer (VERY cute)

Lack of sleep sucks with a capital SUCK


I had MAYBE three and a half hours of sleep.....I am working 6-6 today and tomorrow another 6 hours....I still have to finish my Missouri taxes (those wieners)...probably Saturday will be an early one for this puppy.

Making people laugh...

I love to make people laugh and using sharp wit in order to do this.

I can't help it...just how I am.

Now I do love slapstick comedy however.....if I can make a person laugh at a situation instead of crying over it I will try...'course I pick my battles carefully...not everything is a comedic moment.

However last night in class I could easily tell some of the women who are single mothers are really having to struggle in order to make ends meet so as usual I put my game face on and was able to get them and the instructor to laugh.

Gestures like this can be priceless for someone having a hard day.

Gateway to financial fitness begins with the first step....

I thoroughly enjoyed my class and the instructor was fabulous...she is teaching us how to be frugal for the financial goals we wish to attain...(i.e. for myself I want a home)....

Because I am a visual and mental (NOT that kind of mental) person....I like a chart to look at when it comes to my monthly expenses....my goals. So next weekend I plan on buying a huge bulletin board so that I can begin charting my expenses....creating a large "house jar" (and yes I will have a nice pretty label on it)....to set aside some extra money and find a fabulous picture of what I consider my dream home to tape on my board.

I want to be constantly reminded WHY I am sacrificing for my American dream.......

According to the instructor she stated if your credit score is NOT at least 750 or higher DON'T BOTHER buying a home until you fix it.

WHY???

Because these fly by night loan vendors (you know the ones who deal with high risk clientele) are being reigned in a bit due to the horrid housing market (for sellers at least)....are not as rampant as before when dealing out the $$$$$

She relayed a story (which hit home with the class) in that she knew of a lady who received a home loan at a 12% rate............by the time she pays off this loan her house would have cost her an extra $250.000. I was like...........................

wow

So now I am going to tighten the belt....see where I can save and how and continue going to these classes....

EXCITED!

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Excitement of reviewing new homes


With this being a buyer's paradise I have been checking out homes within my price range here in St. Louis and the county (however this little shopper would stick with a fixed interest rate).
It is amazing what you can get for your $$$$....I mean especially where I live many homes have been on the market for more than six months. I have seen signs foretelling of the sellers' woes with prices reduced. I am salivating at the thought of getting into one myself.


Website:

The Power of Positive Thinking


The power of positive thinking is no secret. You simply have to believe this world, your life has many wonderful opportunities waiting to happen.
I am a firm believer that our Fate is what we make it. Yes, outside forces can interfere but also look at how you deal with them.
Once you find your true path...run with it...don't walk. Martin Luther King had this to say about taking action:
If you can't fly, then run.
If you can't run, then walk.
If you can't walk, then crawl.
But whatever you do, keep moving.