Monday, November 26, 2007
Polling on topics
What is Joy?
Is joy found in the smile of a child, watching an elderly couple holding hands on a breezy summer day? The sunshine and rainbows that cross our paths? The smell of the ocean, the whistling of the wind...the changing colors of the leaves?
Can joy be found in the eyes of your child? The passing of the days in tranquility?
What is joy? Can you smell it, touch, feel it all around you? Can you taste it, crave it, long for its touch?
Visiting Puerto Rico
I love that I come from a large family. That my mom is the eldest of 12 and my cousins are numerous. I can easily count over 60. They have great get-togethers during the holidays. They always find an occasion to celebrate life.
When I used to visit on a more regular basis as a child I remember laughter and singing. My family was always busy. We always had things to do, people to visit. Cousins to play with. If I got bored with one I moved to another.
(A favorite song of mine when I was growing up)...........
En las montañas de Borinquen bella
Saturday, November 24, 2007
My Experiences in the Middle East
I always felt that we do not live in a vacuum. There are many cultures, creeds, and religions out there. We are not the center of the Universe. There are billions of people out there.
I was quite excited to visit UAE and Oman. I have always been enthralled with Middle Eastern culture since I was say 5 years of age.
I prepared myself mentally for the trip. Not only was it a long one...at least 24 hours to arrive...but to handle the animosity I was told I would receive since I was an American. Since 9/11 and the Iraqi and Afghani wars the reputation of America has been sullied.
I was told by more than one person to not reveal my nationality. Instead to say I was from Canada or even Puerto Rico (since my family is from the latter). I was adamant. I replied that I would let everyone know I was American. WHY hide this fact?
And when I arrived I was not spat upon or viewed in some kind of ill manner. Instead I was embraced and yes I was asked many questions but the Gulf Arabs I did meet were pleasantly surprised by my demeanor and enthusiasm for their culture and life in general. I did not have to veil. I did not have to "walk behind a man" as someone told me I would HAVE to do....all the preconceived notions that some of my co-workers and friends had were dispelled during my brief stay.
I loved the hospitality I received, knowing I was actually in the Gulf...that I was in the middle of such a historical site........I fell in love all over again.
I could easily tell that stereotypes about Americans and about Arabs is common and looks to be part of human nature (sadly)...but am glad that I was able to dispel some preconceived notions of what Americans are all about and show them the hospitality and friendliness that a lot of individuals from my own culture are infamous for........
Friday, November 23, 2007
Man fights for Parental Rights.............
I am in agreement when it comes to the lawyer of Daryl Hendrix who stated that in the end it will be the children who will be losing out on a possible relationship with the so-called "sperm donor". I become upset over selfish decisions made regarding artificial fertilization. Granted not all decisions made for this type of pregnancy are wrong...but when a parent is excluded because of selfish reasons...well I have seen as a single mom the sadness in my own child's face not being able to see her father. WHY someone would CHOOSE to go down this path and forgo any guilt regarding the absence of a parent is beyond me.......
Story:
A Topeka man is fighting a legal battle over parental rights, because his babies' mother says he is just the sperm donor.
Instead of enjoying parenthood, he said, he is spending his time trying to change a Kansas law.
Daryl Hendrix said, "All I can do is look forward to the future and holding my children."
Hendrix is a gay man who didn't think he would ever become a father. Then in 2004, the Topeka resident said a longtime female friend named Samantha Harrington approached him and asked if he would father a baby for her through artificial insemination.
...The twins were born in May 2005 at Stormont Vail Hospital in Topeka. Hendrix said when he went to the hospital to see the infants, a boy and a girl, he was turned away.
Website:
http://www.kctv5.com/news/14673759/detail.html
'What would Jesus buy?'
And for this year's Black Friday shopping frenzy, Talen is upping his profile with a colorful campaign promoting a new documentary film about his efforts, "What Would Jesus Buy?"
It will feature "Four Horsemen of the Shopocalypse" riding down Madison Avenue in New York and "elves on strike" at the Grove outdoor mall in Los Angeles, said Morgan Spurlock, who produced the film.
LOVE this photo!!
Christmas tree going up this Sunday
I remember when mom would decorate the whole house with her decorations gathered through all the years of marriage. I miss that. She does not decorate any more. It tires her out. This year my sister has the honors of gathering everyone together at her house in Chicago and my parents will be riding with me...dad shotgun. With his health I do not think it wise for him to drive all that way from Indiana. My brother is flying in from Florida with his girlfriend and my car will be packed along with my parents 'Scottish Terrier, Lexy. Should prove to be a "fun" 5 hour drive.........
Gym routine starts this Sunday
2. Exercise combats chronic diseases.
Worried about heart disease? Hoping to prevent osteoporosis? Regular exercise might be the ticket.
Regular exercise can help you prevent — or manage — high blood pressure. Your cholesterol will benefit, too. Regular exercise boosts high-density lipoprotein (HDL), or "good," cholesterol while decreasing low-density lipoprotein (LDL), or "bad," cholesterol. This one-two punch keeps your blood flowing smoothly by lowering the buildup of plaques in your arteries.
And there's more. Regular exercise can help you prevent type 2 diabetes, osteoporosis and certain types of cancer.
3. Exercise helps you manage your weight.
Want to drop those excess pounds? Trade some couch time for walking or other physical activities.
This one's a no-brainer. When you exercise, you burn calories. The more intensely you exercise, the more calories you burn — and the easier it is to keep your weight under control. You don't even need to set aside major chunks of time for working out. Take the stairs instead of the elevator. Walk during your lunch break. Do jumping jacks during commercials. Better yet, turn off the TV and take a brisk walk. Dedicated workouts are great, but activity you accumulate throughout the day helps you burn calories, too.
Winded by grocery shopping or household chores? Don't throw in the towel. Regular exercise can leave you breathing easier.
5. Exercise promotes better sleep. (DEFNITLY need this....I suffer from insomia)......
Struggling to fall asleep? Or stay asleep? It might help to boost your physical activity during the day.
A good night's sleep can improve your concentration, productivity and mood. And, you guessed it, exercise is sometimes the key to better sleep. Regular exercise can help you fall asleep faster and deepen your sleep. The timing is up to you — but if you're having trouble sleeping, you might want to try late afternoon workouts. The natural dip in body temperature five to six hours after you exercise might help you fall asleep.
6. Exercise can put the spark back into your sex life.
Regular exercise can leave you feeling energized and looking better, which may have a positive effect on your sex life. But there's more to it than that. Exercise improves your circulation, which can lead to more satisfying sex. And men who exercise regularly are less likely to have problems with erectile dysfunction than are men who don't exercise, especially as they get older.
Wondering what to do on a Saturday afternoon? Looking for an activity that suits the entire family? Get physical!
Exercise doesn't have to be drudgery. Take a ballroom dancing class. Check out a local climbing wall or hiking trail. Push your kids on the swings or climb with them on the jungle gym. Plan a neighborhood kickball or touch football game. Find an activity you enjoy, and go for it. If you get bored, try something new. If you're moving, it counts!
Are you convinced? Good. Start reaping the benefits of physical activity today!
Black Friday Deals
General Use: One of the major U.S. holiday shopping days. The day many U.S. consumers begin Christmas shopping. The day is heavily promoted by retailers.
Origin: The origin of Black Friday comes from the shift to profitability during the holiday season. Black Friday was when retailers went from being unprofitable, or "in the red," to being profitable, or "in the black", at a time when accounting records were kept by hand and red indicated loss and black profit.
Also Known As: The day after Thanksgiving.
What I have learned from being single
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Email from our director
May each of you enjoy tomorrow with a loved one or close friend,
May each of you find a reason for truly giving thanks,
May each of you find the table with zero calorie turkey and "fixins", and
May each of you return safely to work.
Happy Thanksgiving,
Ron Hindman
Crock Pot Recipes
Easy Crock Pot Creamy Chicken Recipe
Vegetables
Choose your favourite mix of vegetables from:-
Canned - same as frozen. Though tin peas really loose their color and go a grey sort of color.
Pre-Cut - fresh, pre-cut from the super-market (for when feeling lazy).
Fresh - cut into about 1 inch square pieces. Feel free to prepare the night before.
Meat
Legs (drumsticks), wings, maryland pieces. Even breast or thigh, if you don't like bones. 2¼–3¼lb (1–1½kg) this will serve 4 – 6.
Flavouring
Your favourite flavour of tin soup. Use the ‘Cream of ...’ type soups. Our favourite is cream of corn. Alternatively use one of those ‘Simmer Sauces’ – the ones you use for stir fry’s. We have found that the no name brand ones (which I don’t like in stir fry’s), work well and; they are cheap. Try ‘Honey Mustard’ – my favourite.
Optional Extras
Crushed garlic and/or ginger - teaspoon or two.Herbs - best put in during last hour of cooking- teaspoon or two.Salt and Pepper - added at end - to taste.
DIRECTIONS
Chuck the Vegies in first, put the chicken on top, pour in the soup and pop on the lid. That’s it. Nothing else.Do not add any water, the enclosed slow cooking will retain heaps.Add any of the optional extras.Cook for about 3–4 hours on high OR 6-8 hours on low.
Joined this gym today
Turkey Trivia
1. When was the first American Thanksgiving celebration?
1492
3. What is a female turkey called?
a rooster
a hen
5. What great American statesman lobbied to make the turkey the national symbol?
Benjamin Franklin
6. What sound does a female turkey make?
gobble
gobble
8. About how many feathers does a mature turkey have?
1,500
Kansas
10. How fast can wild turkeys run? (this one stumped me)
11. How does Arkansas rank among the other states in turkey production?
first
12.What Native American tribe celebrated the first Thanksgiving with the colonists?
13. Can wild turkeys fly? If so, how fast?
No.
14. Approximately what percentage of American homes eats turkey on Thanksgiving? 49%
67%
snark
The United States
with a hair dryer
Working with military records
What I find fascinating is reviewing the lives of people who served our country during the Great Wars. When I hold a piece of aged document in my hand my mind hearkens back to the days when this soldier served...what was racing through his mind? Was he afraid of not returning home? I had serviced families whose loved ones fought in Iwo Jima, Pearl Harbor and the Pacific Theatre.
I work cases from all branches of service but not for the Army and parts of the Air Force...unless retired due to the fire we had at NARA in 1973.
With all the records we have, according to NARA, "...laid side to side, pages in our holdings would circle the Earth over 57 times!" It is amazing the wealth of information stored here!
HAPPY THANKSGIVING
My parents are coming to visit from Indiana, and I will be making dinner. (Hope they brought the Tums)....I bought my turkey at this awesome grocery store Aldi's. I like shopping there more so than regular grocery store chains because their prices are better. If I cannot find something there I usually go to Dollar Deals or the Shop-n-Save. I think Schnuck's is just too expensive (little note...I think you pay more for their ambiance than anything else)....
Anyway, have to finish my shopping today and I KNOW it will be crowded. Shame on me...I just kept putting it off. I really am not a shopping kind of gal for anything.
I do look forward to seeing my parents. Christmas we are off to Chicago to stay with my sister and her husband for a couple of days. That will be fun. My sister is a riot.
My hearts goes out to the families and to the soldiers deployed right now and pray that they are safe and have a halfway decent Thanksgiving.
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Loving One's Country
(By Dillon Staas)
Oh gentle, loving people of the land of morning calm,
Death of a Literary Lion
'"I decided the only explanation is that God and the Devil are very attentive to people at the summit. I don't know if they stir much in the average man's daily stew, no great sport for spooks, I would suppose, in a ranch house, but do you expect God or the Devil left Lenin and Hitler and Churchill alone? No. They bidQuotes:
for favors and exact revenge. That's why men with power sometimes act so silly."' (from An American Dream, 1965)
"I take it for granted that there's a side of me that loves public action, and there's another side of me that really wants to be alone and work and write. And I've learned to alternate the two as matters develop."
"There are two kinds of brave men: those who are brave by the grace of nature, and those who are brave by an act of will."
Further reading
Norman Mailer, by Michael K. Glenday. New York: St. Martin's Press, 1995.Radical Fictions and the Novels of Norman Mailer, by Nigel Leigh. New York: St. Martin's Press, 1990.Critical Essays on Norman Mailer, edited by J.Michael Lennon: Boston, G.K.Hall and Co., 1986.Norman Mailer, by Richard Poirier, New York: Viking,1972. One of the best studies of Mailer's writing, tracking his career through the early Eighties.Norman Mailer, by Richard Jackson Foster, University of Minnesota Press, 1968.The Structured Vision of Norman Mailer, by Barry H. Leeds, New York University Press,1969.Norman Mailer, by Robert Merrill, Twayne, 1978.Mailer: His Life and Times, edited by Peter Manso, New York: Simon and Schuster, 1985. Highly readable "oral" biography of Mailer created by cross-cutting interviews with friends, enemies, acquaintances, relatives, wives of Mailer and Mailer himself.Conversations with Norman Mailer, edited by J. Michael Lennon. Jackson, MS: University Press of Mississippi, 1988.The Portable Beat Reader, edited by Ann Charters, Penguin Books. New York. 1992. ISBN 0-670-83885-3 (hc); ISBN 0-14-015102-8 (pbk).
Websites:
http://edition.cnn.com/SHOWBIZ/blogs/marquee/2007/11/death-of-literary-lion.html
http://www.kirjasto.sci.fi/nmailer.htm
Returning to the military
Monday, November 19, 2007
Being the Center of Attention
Generations of Valor
The Quintessential Essence of Being...
Saturday, November 17, 2007
Saving our planet
According to Sustainable Travel International, the greenhouse effect is the rise in temperature that the Earth experiences because certain naturally occurring gases and gases emitted as a result of human activities are released into the atmosphere including water vapor, carbon dioxide, nitrous oxide, and methane, which become trapped on the ground. Because these gasses stay below the earth's atmosphere, they warm the Earth causing disastrous effects on the Earth's natural ecosystem. The combination of these effects is referred to as greenhouse gases.
Seems to me that economic benefits are currently outweighing the future of this planet. As the earth's resources are quickly becoming tapped out due to overpopulation and mishandling of current resources, Mother Nature is violently striking back.
In the news we are seeing more and more disasters. Everything from earthquakes, to melting polar icecaps to cyclones are becoming front page news....as they should be. This planet is on loan.
Countries like India and China are promising as far as experiencing an economic boom at what cost? Is the government going to apply the necessary regulations to maintain a safe environment? According to Cnn, China is regarded as a developing nation, it is not required (???) to curb emissions. Instead, it would be eligible to earn credits by setting up emission-reducing projects and other so called clean development mechanisms. I know that the USA is not perfect in this regard but gains have been made as far as reducing gas house emissions.
According to the Evidence of Accelerated Climate Change:
...we’ve already reached greenhouse gas atmospheric levels equivalent to 450 parts per million of carbon dioxide, the point at which the IPCC says we risk slipping into “dangerous climate change.” While the IPCC assessment acknowledges carbon dioxide-equivalent levels are around 455 parts per million, it assumes the actual climate impact is still below the danger point thanks to the cooling effects of atmospheric aerosols and pollutants. The Climate Institute report notes those aerosol levels are dropping — thanks to pollution-control efforts — while greenhouse gas emissions continue to rise.
Of course we have to look at the other side and discover why they think that our planet is not suffering from this climatic change:
Climate change computer models that predict warming often rely on assumptions and simplifications that raise questions about their reliability. Example: one model effectively moved the Earth's orbit 2 million miles closer to the sun.- Models do not accurately account for the influence of important climate factors, such as the behavior and effect of clouds and oceans.
There are shortcomings in the data. Example: temperature records over the last century may incorrectly suggest warming because many weather stations are close to growing cities.
Temperature observations over the last century are inconsistent with the predictions of global warming theories.
A competing theory, based on the hypothesis that solar activity may be the major factor in climate change, is more consistent with temperature observations in the northern hemisphere during the last century.
In summary, I feel that as a society and as an individual, we should take responsibility over our own pollutants. We should strive for a better planet, reduce emissions and population overgrowth for many many reasons besides the global warming theory. I believe there is solid evidence out there regarding the warming of our planet. I believe that with the melting of the polar icecaps we human beings are partly responsible for the disappearance of this treasure. Everyone is, of course entitled to their opinion and I just like voicing mine.
(Still under constructive thought)
Websites:
http://www.planetsave.com/
http://www.sustainabletravelinternational.org/documents/op_carbonoffsets_about.html#q2
http://www.nationalcenter.org/NPA233.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emissions_trading
http://www.whitehouse.gov/ceq/global-change.html
http://www.heritage.org/Research/EnergyandEnvironment/BG896.cfm
http://www.sciencemag.org/cgi/content/full/306/5702/1686
http://www.nrdc.org/globalWarming/qthinice.asp
The onset of life...
I admire this. I look up to people who strive to better themselves. My uncle, well he has faced many hardships yet despite this he continues moving forward.
I feel that no matter what your life circumstance is, if you have that fire burning within you....you will find a way to make your dreams come true...to pull yourself up by the bootstraps so to speak, and accomplish your goals.
I am currently fixing my resume to tailor it towards teaching. I want to make my past education and job experience as attractive as possible for a local college. I would like no.......I would love to teach part time. Since the 2nd grade I have always wanted to teach. Down the road through my journey that path was made more difficult. However, that yearning is still there...to partake in the academic process of creating a mindful of individuals who seek to better themselves and the world around them. To become part of the Ivory Tower again....God I miss it!
Blog format change
Found my gym
7-17 Year Olds - $118.00
Adults (18 & Up) - Unlimited Classes $174.00
ALL FEES APPLY PER SESSION
Islam, Christianity and the Veil
The Tabernacle (reconstruction) showing the veils which covered the sanctuary and the courtyard Hebrew mitpahath (Ruth 3:15; marg., "sheet" or "apron;" R.V., "mantle"). In Isaiah 3:22 this word is plural, rendered "wimples;" R.V., "shawls" i.e. wraps.
Massekah (Isaiah 25:7; in Isa. 28:20 rendered "covering"). The word denotes something spread out and covering or concealing something else (comp. 2 Cor. 3:13-15).
Radhidh (Cant. 5:7, R.V. "mantle;" Isaiah 3:23). The word probably denotes some kind of cloak or wrapper.
One of the major misconceptions about the hijab (covering of the body except the face and hands) is that young women are forced to wear it by their parents or by male family members.
Syed maintains that when a woman is covered, men cannot judge her by her appearance but are forced to evaluate her by her personality, character, and morals. "I tell them that the hijab is not a responsibility, it's a right given to me by my Creator who knows us best. It's a benefit to me, so why not? It's something every woman should strive to get and should want."
"For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels.
Now, this fouls up every authority man tries to exercise over the woman because it says it is the prerogative of the woman to decide on whether to cover her head or not. There is no duty of man to impose this on the woman.
(4092) 'Aisha said: Asthma', daughter of Abu Bakr, entered upon the
Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him) wearing thin clothes. The Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) turned his attention from her. He said: O Asthma', when a woman reaches the age of menstruation, it does not suit her that she displays her parts of the body except this and this, and he pointed to her face and hands. (Note 3523).
Friday, November 16, 2007
Is Christianity a religion of terrorism?
http://www.englishsabla.com/forum/showthread.php?t=50101
Interesting conversation had at work today
Trans Siberian Orchestra
Wizards in Winter (*******)
Christmas Eve in Sarajevo
Website:
http://www.trans-siberian.com/multimedia/index.shtml
Websites:
http://www.ncteamericancollection.org/assets/pdf/aaw_poetry_essay.pdf
http://topuertorico.org/culture/litera.shtml
http://www.witchvox.com/vn/po/uspr_po.html
http://www.poetryfoundation.org/features/feature.onpoets.html?id=179552
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Puerto_Rican_literature
http://www.fortunecity.com/victorian/churchmews/1216/Aguinaldo.htm
Living in the Midwest
What is interesting about Missouri is that I feel pretty safe. Albeit St. Louis is really not the safest city to live in but I choose to live within a neighborhood (did my research while in college before moving) which has a low crime-rate and a great school system. I made sure to do my homework before moving here.
I had previously posted an entry which discusses some generalities regarding Midwestern living and they are pretty much true.
I find St. Louis is large enough for me to explore yet small enough where I do not feel intimidated by traffic. (Like Chicago...LOVE the city....HATE the traffic)...Though I270 does have its moments.
I grew up in Indiana and Missouri really is no different. Less cornfields...lol...I have noticed a rise in immigration here. There is a sizeable Bosnian population. There is a Hispanic minority...I do not see much of "my kind" here.
shows the greatest concentration of Hispanic population in 2004 was in Jackson County having an estimated Hispanic population of 43,268. The Hispanic population in Jackson County increased by 23.1 percent from 2000-2004. Other large concentrations of Hispanics in 2004 included St. Louis County with 17,244, Clay County with 8,354, St. Louis City with 7,917, St. Charles County with 5,968, Jasper County with 5,358 and Greene County with 5,349. Together those seven counties were home to 93,458 Hispanic people in 2004 – 63 percent of Missouri’s total Hispanic population.
I really enjoy the Midwest because we are pretty laid back, friendly, (at least to me they are), and I enjoy the large "openness" of living in this part of the country. There is a Puerto Rican society here which holds annual events and is a great place to network. The key is being active in your community regardless of where you live...make the most of your neighborhood...your city is only as boring as what you make it out to be. Networking, exploring entertainment opportunities, volunteering all are important regarding where you decide to live and how you live it.
Websites:
http://stlrising.blogspot.com/2007/11/midwest-cities-top-forbes-living-well.html
http://www.alliantenergy.com/docs/groups/public/documents/pub/p014609.hcsp
Things to Remember
And don't ever forget...for even a day ... how very special you are.