Monday, July 21, 2008

Why men love bitches


Okay........


(It was interesting reading but made me wonder also)


Now that I have your attention I decided to discuss a book I came across and read out of sheer curiosity.


I always am interested in hearing the opinion of the opposite gender when it comes to relationship issues.


In college there is a class called: The Psychology of Women...I didn't take it but heard it was always full. I digress but had to mention it....men are just as hard to figure out at times also fair is fair in love and war! ;^)


I always thought men prefered the girl next door type....this author discusses how women can have their cake and eat it too (and not share any unless they want to).


Good


Bad?


Depends on your point of view and what you consider a "bitch" to be.


Is she a confident woman or a pain in the the royal ass?


The author discusses some key points regarding how men and women interact in the dating scene and how women who are too nice tend to be used as doormats while women who are more assertive attract their errr prey.




Contending that some women are "too nice," comedian and radio show host Sherry Argov has written Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship. "I'm not recommending that a woman have an abrasive disposition," Argov writes, "The woman I'm describing is kind yet strong. She doesn't give up her life, and she won't chase a man." Her sassy book is filled with scenarios and advice aimed at making women subtly stronger and self-empowered. Argov's principles, which range from the farfetched to the downright absurd, include "If you give him a feeling of power, he'll want to protect you and he'll want to give you the world" and "A little distance combined with the appearance of self-control makes him nervous that he may be losing you." The book, which has already been featured on The View and The O'Reilly Factor, should make waves with its controversial view of relationships. Copyright 2002 Reed Business Information, Inc.


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Personally, I feel that there is no one true guide as to how to behave in a relationship...you go with your gut instinct always respect your partner as you should be respected in return...have common interests...laugh, laugh, and laugh...enjoy being together---it shouldn't be so hard.
BTW....don't miss out on reading Why Men Marry Bitches

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